Just talked to a friend last night.. shared to her my views of coping with .. - yeah- the break up thingy.. i told her that, the most difficult thing to do is accepting reality, yet, that made me cope and recover. In life, the most difficult stage is "denial". We’d say we can while we know we can’t, we’d say I’m okay while we know we are not okay, we’d say we are happy but we are not. The thing here is, we should not hide the truth about what we feel, we have to be honest with ourselves, we have to tell ourselves that yes I need help, yes I’m not okay, yes I feel bad.. afterall ,that’s life all about, learning and accepting.

To learn and accept helps us face the reality of life and tomorrow we’d know what’s the best thing to do and start ourlives over again… Whenever I think about starting over, I always see the sun shining on me.. I feel the love of God, the gift of hope and life’s greater challenges, challenges that would make us stronger people in the end.. and oh yes! challenges that make us continue to love…  and loving is the greatest gift anyway, - yes to love and be loved -.. and so I’d never stop loving… those who love truly may have been into some sacrifices and pain, but you’d be proud of being hurt because you know when people get hurt then they love truly.

… and that’s 100% reality…

.. and before you know it, you’d not say reality bites.. you’d just say.. let ‘em just go to hell.. hahah :p oops.. typo error ata un.. I mean you’d just say.. I have moved on….

And since it’s about moving on.. you might want to try the road you always want to travel..

in my case then.. we’ll find out… .. soon. *fingers crossed*